From this angle, they can slide their penis into your anus. Your partner then lies on their side, facing towards you with their body perpendicular to yours.Bring the bent leg as far as you can toward your shoulder, using your hand to hold the knee if needed.Lie on your back with one leg extended and the other leg bent at the knee.'There is a lot of opportunity for eye-gazing and deep kissing and hand stroking,' Cooper says. When you're in this position, 'it's helpful to have the top person set a rhythm for thrusting since they have more ability to tilt their hips back and forth,' says Sari Cooper, LCSW, a certified sex therapist and founder of Center for Love and Sex in NYC.Ī bonus of this position is that your face is very close to your partner's, giving you the chance to get extra intimate. It's important to note that your partner will need to sit close enough that you can reach their anus for penetration. Your partner will then sit in your lap, facing you, and wrap their legs around your back.Sit with your knees bent out to the sides and the bottoms of your feet touching, much like a butterfly position in yoga.